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Take this time apart to work on things you might have neglected due to being in a relationship.

Watch movies

Movies are great because if they are compelling enough they help shift your mind to a different place and distract you from any pain in the present you are feeling. Get some comedy, horror, drama, any genre you are a fan of, just make sure they are GOOD movies and preferably NOT romance related.

Play video games

Similarly to movies, nowadays video games are so complex and realistic, they do a great job of pulling you out of reality. Find a game that you can really get lost in and will occupy your mind for a few hours.

Past hobby

Were there ever a hobby that you enjoyed in the past that you gave up due to been in a relationship? Rekindle your interest in a hobby such as writing, drawing, playing a musical instrument or anything at all. Dive yourself into the hobby and be grateful you finally have the time to focus on it instead of someone else always taking your attention away.

Music

Play some music you know will instantly cheer you up. Do however avoid the sad love songs, especially any that instantly will remind you of your ex. It would be even better to go out to a concert with some friends and really lose yourself in the music.

Play a sport

If there was a sport you wanted to try or one that you didn’t have time for previously due to your relationship, this is the perfect time to start getting active again. Similarly you could join a gym or start a martial art course.

Smiling to strangers

Try to smile to at least three strangers every time you live the house. You could make it even more interesting by smiling to three good looking strangers. This will boast your confidence and really forget your ex.

Read a book or start a blog

If you’re a reading and writing person, grab some books and delve into those. Personal development books are great for motivation as well as making money ones. You could also start a blog on something you’re interested in or know a lot about. You could even make money while doing it!

Shopping

Sometimes you need to spend some money to feel good. So get some friends or if you like to shop alone you can too, and head to your shopping centre. Think about all the money you can save now that you don’t have another person to worry about. You could also get a new haircut or make over to make yourself feel a whole lot better.

These are only a small list of possible things you could do to get your mind off your ex. Remember to enjoy your life and focus on the positives of been single again! Whether your ex will return to you again, if you have no control over it, then why not enjoy doing things you DO have control over.