How Do You Get Your Ex Back
You may have just broke up with your ex and now you’ve realized what a huge mistake you’ve made. Can you really get them back? One of the fears we have once we go through a break up is whether they still love us. Sure they might say they have feelings for us, perhaps even love still, but do they really mean it? Why would they or you break up with someone you are still in love with?
Love comes in many different forms and the sad truth is, love alone is hardly enough to sustain a relationship. But it is the foundation of any healthy relationship, so if we were to start anywhere it would be from there. If your ex is still on speaking terms with you, talk to them and understand why they want what they want and where you fit in.
If you’re the one who let a good relationship go, you need to carefully position yourself back into the good books of that other person. By breaking up with them, you have hurt them deeply and it possibly is too soon to make amends directly after a breakup. Whatever your reasons were, you must have had a reason. However stupid, let them know you are sorry but don’t be surprised if they don’t want to talk to you for a while.
Keep up communication with your ex but do not over do it. It is likely they are trying to get on with their life so you should do too. Take the time to learn from the break up and understand why it went wrong and how it could be fixed in the future. Simply telling your ex things will be different is not going to be enough.
Show them simply through your actions on a weekly basis you are trying to improve. They will reward you for your efforts and wooing them back will be a lot easier. Simply talk to them, express how you feel and take listen to what their needs are. In time they will be drawn back to you. Especially if there is no competition.
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