Stop My Break Up – Get My Ex Back Tips & Advice Blog

I often get letters from my members crying for help. I usually take a deep breath and really try to be helpful, but sometimes it gets a little tiring repeating the same advice over and over.

Basically it seems when people don’t see results straight away they freak out and assume you’re withholding knowledge from them in some way. I’m definitely not!

So one of the scenarios that seem to pop up fairly often is when I recognize someone referring to an Immature Ex. What defines an immature ex?

In my opinion, someone who:

• Deliberately tries to hurt you or make you jealous.
• Display no signs of remorse or care for the loss of the relationship.
• Jumps on the next person that comes along but still INSISTS on you acting Like nothing has changed.
• Goes out of their way to avoid you or make you feel bad about something very innocent.

If you’re trying to get an Immature Ex back into your life I think you need to really consider why you want them back in the first place. Generally someone who is incapable of showing any respect for you after a break up says a lot about them as a person.

And it’s not anything nice either. At the same time, you still wanting to be with that person tells me you may have some issues to work through yourself.

There is absolutely no good reason at all for them to act like this around you, unless they’re not nice people to begin with.

Another reason could be they still have feelings for you and want to get back at you. Once again although it might ‘seem’ innocent enough, their immaturity is really what bothers me about the whole thing.

Either way, the best thing to do is simply ignore them and carry on like it doesn’t affect you at all.

And really, I know No Contact is hard but sometimes remaining in contact is even harder, it just takes a little longer for the pain to hit you but when it hits, it hits hard!